Friday, March 18, 2005

sex...a debate

why is sex bad?

No sex isnt bad. Not at all.

Yeah rite. Will you sleep with me tonight?

ummmm...

See...why cant we treat sex as something normal? As a normal human urge that has to be satisfied? Like food and thirst?

And wats the big deal about it?

theres no big deal. whats with you? I think you are suddenly horny.

OK. what if I am horny? Maybe I am horny. Maybe I aint. But I am sick of this "we dont care about sex" attitude that folks like to hang around their necks. While all the while, thats whats on their minds.

hmmm...its certainly not an issue to wear on your t-shirt. "I Love to Fuck"...you want them to roam around in shirts like those? whats your point?

my point is, when you are thirsty, you go ask for water. You dont walk around assuming you never heard of water. You dont act as if drinking water, except from one particular glass, is sin. Tell me, do u?

you are oversimplifying things. sex and thirst aint the same things.

they are. we are just conditioned to think they are not. we are conditioned to think that sex is something mysterious, deeply sinful yet something that everyone does in secret. and by doing this we have blown it out of proportion.

i think you are blowing it out of proportion. if people have their private lives, whats the problem? civilised society demands some order. equating sex with water will lead to chaos. we would behave like animals.

And are we doing any better right now? are we really? under our high-brow, puritan stance, arent there so many dark desires and hidden truths? Why not have the courage to accept? To admit to the desires instead of lusting secretly.

and do what? sleep around? be unfaithful? be loose?

Thats upto people. I feel you should be honest rather than be a hypocrit. If you ahve thought about it, you have as good as done it. And theres nothing wrong in admitting to it. Whats wrong is to play the moralist. to fake things. that sucks.

1 comment:

G Shrivastava said...

Asking for food and water when you're hungry or thirsty is simply not the same as asking for sex...you can share someone's meal, partake off his/her cantina of water - but sorry, call me a prude, puritan or hypocrite, but sharing your lover simply isn't in the same category.

There's nothing wrong in sex per se - we all need it, yes, repressing it doesn't help you or the society, but making it so easy to access aint helping either. Healthy atitudes need to be developed - giving in to your sexual needs when ever you feel the itch in your crotch isn't the solution.

 
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